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Connell Barrett

Author of Dating Sucks But You Don’t (Simon & Schuster)

Connell Barrett is the founder of Dating Transformation and a relationship coach for The League dating app. Over his seven years as an international dating coach, he has helped thousands of men across the globe find love by emphasizing a philosophy of radical authenticity. He operates under the core belief that men are most successful when they stop using “pick-up” tactics and instead learn to be their genuine selves.

Based in New York City, Connell has been recognized as a leading expert in his field, earning the title of New York City’s Top Male Dating Coach from Datezie.com in 2019. His expertise is frequently sought by major media outlets, leading to numerous television appearances on programs such as Access Hollywood, the Today Show, and Good Morning L.A. He also serves as an advisor for AskMen and Elite Daily, and his insights have been featured in The New York Times, Cosmopolitan, Oprah Magazine, Playboy, and Maxim.

In May 2021, Connell published his first book, Dating Sucks But You Don’t: The No-BS Guide to Finding Your Person, with Simon & Schuster. The book provides a roadmap for men to build confidence and navigate the modern dating landscape without losing their integrity. When he isn’t coaching or writing, Connell is a frequent guest on various podcasts and radio programs, sharing his strategies for building meaningful connections.

Books

Dating Sucks But You Don’t

Tiller Press, May 11th, 2021 with